When faced with difficulties, I tend to get defensive and blurt out whatever is on my mind, whether it's true or not..... So last night, I got defensive and blamed him for the affair -- I know, the worst thing I could possibly do. I apologized last night and this morning and tried to explain that I said things out of anger and didn't really feel the way I said I felt last night.
Did you read that, CME?
Lifeline has admitted that she was wrong.
She is here for HELP.
Rubbing her wrongdoings in her face - please tell us how that is helpful when I believe she sees it already.
This woman is hurting just as much as her H is.
Lifeline, you made a mistake, and you've apologized through your words. Now how can you SHOW your H that you are truly sorry through your ACTIONS?
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell