No more looking 4 Happy, Going to create it myself

[daybyday]

hey bobbijo, i have been following your sitch here lately, and your h must have a really hard head. (no offense). i dont see anything wrong with backing off from the butt kissing. i understand how you feel. how long b4 was jump in and pull their weight. what i do when i start feeling like my needs arent being met(affection, touching, physical stuff) i just pull back and get quiet. w is keen to this and makes a conscious attempt to get close to me. that works great, for a while. the bit of affection she gives me kind of placates me 4 awhile. then the whole cycle repeats. i think your h is just being stubborn and want to come back to m HIS WAY. i think that is the case with most was. they really dont feel that they have anything to atone for. at least they dont want their hand forced. just my opinion. good luck.