tgone, I am not sure if she is WAW in MLS or not, she left I know that. based on the symptoms and the way it came down, its looks to be MLC, but know one knows for sure. I am hoping something comes to light that will give me a clue. Right now, based on everything I will go dark again, try to avoid contacting her at all levels. i will do her brakes tomorrow night and hopefully I will see something in her eyes tomorrow. 29th anniversary is brutal right now. I have just got half way throguh chapter 2 of DR. I will most likely finish it tonight or tomorrow night latest. I am hoping to gain some more strength from it. Have you read it? did it help? I know your situation is dire. My wife has continually commented to friends that people who even get divorced get back together after even two years. Why is she making these comments? This is why I think she is MLC. Does anyone have any sure signs? Probably not. AmyC has been huge with her impressions and help. Yours is also very helpful. Any tips you can give me to help guide me down the path will be helpful. I am sure you have read my blogs and know that I am running my household. It is amazing how much time out of my day it takes. I know I need to focus on me, ut I have the house, kids, family, holdiays coming up, trying to sell my camper adn/or close it for the season, food shopping, driving my daughter to here there and everywhere. She has nothing to do. My MIL brought that to her attention. I thanked her for that. My W is about my W right now. I know that. Just need to focus. How are you getting throguh it? What tricks are you using? I can imagine your pain is as big as mine. there isn't anything I wouldn't do for her, so I guess what I need to do is let her go....Doesn't help me much, right now, but I guess I have to try and let her go...
