I have hard evidence. That's all I'll say here. OM is married, has grown children and grandchildren and extended family.

MC thinks that this would put the nail in the coffin for her to think that I am an ogre and unredeemable, but I am not the one with the low moral and ethical code at the moment. He thinks that letting her come out of the fog on her own over time will lead to a more successful resolution with remorse and a true desire for reconcilliation. Exposure will only possibly bring her back for 6 months when she can perfect her lies an then off she will go for another round of lies and deceit.