Thanks Sep,

Prob is he is trying to make this an ultimatum. He seems to expect a perfect relationship after 2 weeks or nothing at all. This is why I said that there were 4 stages and what I hoped for was that he could feel more comfortable around me after 2 weeks, and that I would just hang back, not try to get him to do things etc.

This is pretty much what I asked for however I didn't expect the ultimatum. I need to think about how best to do this now. He wants to maybe break up the 2 weeks; I actually think that's worse. There will also be the roommate here. In a way I think this is good as I'd have the chance to really get along with him. I've always been good at getting along with guys as friends...

Hmmmm,

I'll post in the morning again!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!