Hi - My heart fluttered for you when you said there was little notes etc. I am a little excited for you. I understand about not getting your hopes up because that is what i do and then I come crashing down.

Also good news about real estate agent. It is amazing who we share our troubles with and how a complete stranger can help.

I suppose your wife knows that you are adhereing to the law by not responding. I think that , that would be my first communication. Making sure she understands that you would love to be talking about kids etc.

Could you not write her a note, expressing that you love getting updates from her but in fear of violation you cannot respond. Surely that could not be used against you ? Maybe a little risk would be worth it.

Sounds like she has possibly had the space and time and is moving back towards the light.

Well i am off to do some flirting. I know i can flirt ok, its the other stuff I am not sure of.

Here goes............