My drama free times are usually when there is no contact. Sometimes those moments hurt me. When there's drama, there's still feelings. Like we care enough to heat things up. Of course, during those times, I also crave peace. I've decided that when I get my own place, the first thing I'll do is paint my bathroom red (h wouldn't allow it), my front door red (another thing I always wanted), and get a sign for my living room or dining room that simply says "peace". A reminder.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."