Bethie sent me over to your thread and she wants you to know that she sends her good wishes to you.
I think the only good thing about divorce is the divorce diet that gets us back to our skinny clothes so effortlessly.
I agree with Barb that depression might cause uncleanliness but certainly have no idea in yoor W's case. I applaud you for living in the house with the kids and know is must be very hard for you.
Two things from you post stood out to me:
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I am having those feeling of missing my W--which I try to put out of mind. Its hard as I keep thinking about what I could have done differenty to save the amrriage. After contemplation as well as conversations with a couple of close friends, it appears nothing I would have done or could do, would have changed the result.
That shows progress. When we stop beating ourselves up over something we have little or no control over, we can then start looking at what we need to do for our kids and ourselves. Takes a while to get there though.
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I do not know how reconcilliation would ever work, nor would I even want to consider it after the recent events.
It seems to me that you are being very level-headed right now and your thread may need to be renamed soon.
