The one good that came from this was that he's suggested we trial me living here for 2 weeks when I get back. However the bad thing is that he could be willing to throw in the towel if it doesn't work after only 2 weeks.
He kept saying "you need to be willing to let me go". He was so cold and hard and generally mean. He has this MLC book by his bed, and I don't think he's gotten to the R section of the book yet as this section actually says GOOD things about relationships and how people tend to blame others during this time.
He just can't possibly think of leaving me if things don't work after 2 weeks???!!! I even told him the R stages, as I thought it was appropriate, that we were still in stage 1...
Ugh I don't know what I should do. I mean I definitely need to do 2 weeks here. This is an opportunity but it as if he has already made his mind up!!!
I know it is sh!tty but this is your chance to validate, validate, validate. Look back at pisces sitch.
