Hey Kalni, I understand what you mean about the Pisceans together.. my BMF was born the same week as us, same age and his feelings and realisations have mirrored mine this year, down to the day, but for entirely different reasons! But its really helped that he understands. His W is coming back in early December though.
I'm so sorry to hear that your Dad has had another setback, that must make things with your stbx harder to navigate, as if you dont have enough on your mind right now! And your Dad is more important and you need energy for that right.
As for suggestions...Jody said alot of very useful things to me that would enable me and my ex to talk to one another, without there being blame, or recriminations or anger, because sometimes we take up a position that is polarising and creats chasms and that blocks honest communication. Sounds like you just want a cards on the table type talk? I can post what she said later if you like.
This week is excellent for this type of talk (Mercury has now caught up with the Sun and reversing still, so time to have the conversation you meant to have months ago).. but later in the week is best, not tonight or tommorow night. Thats my advice!
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
