I appreciate the thoughts. It is hard to know from this end what anything means. It's nice to bounce things off others and get a new perspective.

Btw, we haven't had sex in a year. One night she got into bed and I rolled over and started to make out with her and she recoiled and asked me how I could just expect to have sex like that, and that she never wanted to have sex with me again, didn't want a second child with me and other hurtful things.

I was in shock. And pretty pissed off. After that I made no attempt to have sexual contact with her again.

She had never acted like this before, and it really put me off.


Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09