LADYBUG trying to detatch..but doesn't know how.

[Trixi]

Is there a time when you are both awake and not at work?

Have you talked to an attorney about your rights regarding the house? And when you say there is no equity, do you mean that there is no money in it if you *sell it* after all the closing costs are paid? or that you truly owe exactly what it is worth?

Do you want to work on the marriage? Is he just trying to deflect the blame to you so that *he* can be the so-called victim?

Oops-I have to make a call right now- so I'll just post this and see what you say.