I am so sorry your dad has taken this bad turn. Keep us posted on his condition. I will continue praying for him and you.
I understand the frustration of not having any plans in advance. My STBX won't even commit to the upcoming weekend let alone a vacation time in December. Of course he doesn't have a steady job right now either so he's not sure what he's doing most of the time (not that he has admitted to me that he is working at the gas station). I like that you are giving him an opportunity to make a plan regarding the kids but moving on with your own plans regardless. He's just too wrapped up in himself to consider how his lack of planning affects you and the kids. So, let him sit and spin on it! That's my opinion of it anyway.
Let us know what you will be talking with him about and maybe we can help you to iron out some things with positive speech so that you remain very calm but upbeat and catch him off guard. Who knows? Maybe it could lead to more non-contentious discussions in the future.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
