I agree. One of the reasons for her discontnet was my not really being there for her issues, emotional or otherwise according to her comments and discussions with her family and frineds that she has talked with. She has definitely seen my changes, changes in the home and her situation getting worse. I have just started reading DR. Don't want to piece a strategy together until I do. However, my feeling on this is that if I don't take an initative, knowing how she is and how she bottles everything up, it could be a lost opportunity to get her to at least open up her commnications with me.

I just sent her a text "Thinking of you! Wnated to talk to you yesterday, still do." that was it. I figure maybe it will at least get her to contact me. I am staying dim on this. Hard to do, but...Still doing it.