Actually no, I don't think it's stupid for you to say those things. I think he is acting like a stubborn child. He won't be this way forever, and if you act like the adult in the relationship he just might start feeling like an idiot. It takes two to fight. He can fight all by himself if he wants-eventually he will start to feel lonely in his actions. I have to ask, before this was everything OK? No signs of problems? Also he may be angry because he was concerned for his family member and your actions came across to him as being uncaring. I understand exactly why you did what you did-I would have done the same thing probably. Let him cool down. See how things are in a day or so. Go on with your life (easy to say), be cheerful. Atleast then you'll know the problem is his-not yours. Rachael
