One thing I know is that I cycle about things. I have to look at myself really hard sometimes to try and see if something is really as it is or if it is just my perception at that particular time.
If I think it is not just down to me being a bit 'off' or insecure I mention it to my H. Much though we would like them to 'know' things without us pointing them out I have now come to terms with the fact that my H is not a mind reader and he is not good at picking up on vibes.
He just processes things differently to me and much though that can upset/ annoy me at times, I have to just accept it; otherwise it is ME that gets upset.
I know this is a trivial example...but today my eldest D needed picking up from school. Now she had said she would phone when she needed picking up. My H decided he would be the one to pick her up. Both my D and I assumed therefore he would be at home waiting for the phone call.....because that's what we would do. No, he was waiting for her in a local supermarket car park. My D tried phoning the house several times and then in the end got me on my mobile. I tried phoning the house too. Neither of us expected him to leave the house when he had her to pick up - he just thinks differently to us.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
