A, I'm not judging you or anyone else that is going out and getting some. All I am saying is I feel, and this is MHO, is that sex changes a relationship and moves it to a different level along with a deeper connection. If your in it to just get laid and thats all that both people want then it is fine. But when one is thinking its more and the other thinks its not that is when someone gets hurt. Again JMHO.