Water:
You are so right when you said its seems i want to control him... yes... i am so desesperate bc this old behavior of him is repeating even after all we had lived in our R. Do you think is perfectly reasonable and logical to cut off the words to your wife, dont talk to her at all and even go out alone with your kids withut your wife, only bc she ask you, in a jelaus way,where are you?!!... and more if she had asked him excuse bc her reaction?!!...
So, yes, i want deep in my heart to know how to change this behavior from him...!!... i am right now sad, alone in home bc he decided to go ut with kids withpout me, while i was looking for some present of my baby and hiding then just until christmass... When i arrived home, i found out he had made plans with kids... Surprise...!!... I am working hard trying him not desestabilize me and stress me... but it is difficult, and ths time i dont want to talk... he need to look for the talk, for the resolution of this big problem he had made bc a question i made and a question i ask for an excuse, i apologyze...!!.. i will appreciate anny comment from the board...
Andrea