Ok, girls opinion here, and one that just get "stood up" so to say by OM.
My intentions that night were purely to, well, get laid. I know, I am a diry girl, which is the total opposite of me, but I kind of missed out on my teens and 20's, been with H only, and kind of had to get something out of the way.
The beginning of our night was spent with him saying how much he had liked me for years, holding my hand, kissing me, his hand on my leg while we were at the casino playing black-jack. Things that were more than just getting laid. It felt godd when I hadn't felt it for a while.
The sexual tension was there all night and we released it. We psent the morning laying there being affectionate, cuddling, with HIM talking about how he was going ot take me out that week, this isn't the last time he was going ot see me, although I said that was just fine if it was. heinsisted on my number and before he left, he said "see you tuesday."
He works at the same place as my cousin. He said he was defintely going ot call me that week to her. H didn't. My cosuin actually e-mailed him. he said he lost my number and needed it again. She gave it to him. he never called.
So, I didn't want an R either Arthur, but I most certainly like being played with. If you don't ever want ot see me again, fine. i established that was fine. but don't lie, don't pretend, I am not a kid. What sucked about this was he knew what H did to me, you would htink he would have had a little ocmpassion and not totally stand up a woman who got left by her H. he isn't that bright though.
I hate to say it, but her answer to the text as kind of the same crap OM was giving my cousin. OM never called.
Dating can suck big time, and dating could be lots of fun. I am interested to see though, some of you men do think like us women! I wish I could find a man I was on the same wavelength with.
Arthur, you go out alot, meets lot of women. My butt gets out once in a bluemoon (although I usually do meet a guy when I go out I realize. Maybe I have "Desperate Divorcee" written on my forhead".) I think of you DONT look for it, it is going to pop up when and where you least expect it.
see GM, I don't have a problem with this if both see things the same way..I mean a F***Buddy is a F***Buddy as long as both people are in it for the same thing. He should not have led you on. He should have been straight up and to the point. I don't see you as a dirty girl either. Sex is SEX, we all want it we all need it..if nothing else for the relief and companionship..even if that companionship is short lived..
Last edited by M from Tennessee; 10/06/0802:34 PM.
