Garry, need to get yourself into counseling and your children. For your W to say that she feels that way for that one woman but is not gay makes no sense. I think your W has been fighting these feelings for years and now she either has to accept herself or not especially now that it is out in the open. We all come to these message boards out of need, and the support here will make you stronger one day at a time.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
