So... after a "little bad mood" i need to post the positve right now...The thing is that he got mad one morning, bad mood, only bc there wasnt at the refrigerator the diete drink he use to drinh... he even didnt say goodbye that morning to me bc that with a kiss as he use to do every morning... So, i get mad too, i get furious bc he get that mood towards me bc an insignificant thing, Life is not about Diet drink, life has many other difficults points and problems to get mad... But i work myself a lot trying not to let him disturb and alter my mood and happines... and also did a big 180... instead of trying to talk about it, or trying to resolve the problem looking at him as anything had happen, i decide he has to be the one who look for a reconciliation and stop the fight... as the way he want it... but not me... and i also decide i need to show him i was furious, bad bc his reaction... So, yesterday i went to a reunion at other city in my country, a work reunion... i didnt talk at all by phone to him... when i arrived ome, he was there... i didnt say hello (so, you didnt say goodbywe to me bc that stupidity.... now i am the one who doesnt say hi bc i am mad)... i work a little at the pc... so to sleep... this morning, when the ring bell sounded... he look for me, give me lovely kisses... and this was his way to tell me "hey i am sorry... yes, i want to makes peaces with you" So... the positive here is: 1- i get mad but control myself and didnt show him a change in my mood with children or my day, i was happy but mad with him... 2. he look for a resolution... and ask for forgivness, not me...!!... in his way, but perfectly valuable... andrea
