Jeff, that is awesome. I am so glad you went out. I can spend 3 hours just going to Barnes and Nobles or Borders, having a coffee and looking at books, then getting some dinner.
I have eaten solo at Texas Roadhouse a few times. I love their Pomegranate Margarita, prob. not on your approved foods list though! And I always eat too much bread, I love their butter....ok now I am hungry...
Sounds like things are going well for Jeff, regardless of W. You are getting your room organized and more comfortable, you are enjoying your free time, spending time with the boys, etc. Good for you!
Well a woman who comes straight from work to eat with her family, doesnt sound like a woman whose thinking of leaving. Round 1 to Jeff! Now you just need to work out how to wrestle her back into that tidy bed.. ... ok, lets not get ahead of ourselves here. So pleased for you Jeff, I really want your W to start appreciating what she's got, in the here and now. Life is precious, we shouldnt waste it.
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Whooeee! I see a little, teeny, tiny bit of ice might be melting. I think the way to your w's heart is through the projects she wants done.
How goes the bedroom? Dont quit until its all done. Soon you'll be ready for the closet. You could do it.
Keep it going. Next time you go out, and she asks, try to not be as forthcoming. Just say, oh I was out and about. A little shopping and things. Real casual, ya know?
