Andrea, sadly, I do not have much to report since you posted on my thread months ago. I have found no evidence of OW, yet my h. remains cold, distant and told me in August that he wants a d. Yet he has done nothing about getting one. I have not mentioned it again because I do not want to push him into getting one and I think that just might happen if I bring it up again. I'm trying to be patient, but his getting very hard. He has no communication with me. I have only seen him briefly three times in 7 months. Two of those times were not good because I was so emotional and he said the same old things about not wanting me and wanting me to "move on". Now he says he does not even want to be friends, but would like to remain "friendly", meaning we aren't hateful and mean to one another and that I don't make any demands on him. In other words, he wants me to totally let him do as he wants and not bother him about anything. He has given up all responsibilities.
Did you know I became a grandma in April--a l pound 6 oz. baby boy. He was 3 months early, but he is doing well. This was very sad for me because I always dreamed we would be grandparents together and my h. always talked about grandchildren. He has only seen the baby three times in three months.
I am so glad to hear you are doing well. It does give us hope. I have often wondered about you. You were so strong and wise in your responses to h's behavior. I'm glad this is working out for you. I know it has not been easy.
