Searching for me again

[ACJ]

I don't know what the prognosis is for my friend. At the moment I only have to go on what D13 told me. All I know is she got confirmation last Tuesday, is having surgery in 2 weeks and then will have 6 months of chemo. I haven't rung her myself yet. I wanted to get my emotions out the way as I didn't think me crying on the phone to her would help.

there is still a part of him that does not want to lose you completely

Yes the part of him that knows I am better at finances than him and he wants to continue to share in the rewards of my hard work. I no longer believe there is anymore to it than that.

This man has hurt me to my very core. My gut instinct is to hurt back even harder but I wouldn't be here if I was going to follow through with that. I just want peace in my life. I want D13 to have some stability and not have the threat of H selling the house from underneath us hanging over her poor little head. I want to be able to plan my future especially in financial terms but while ever H is playing these games I can't do that.

Opinions I've had from others who have gone through similar experiences (most of them here at some point or other) are mixed. Some say swallow your pride and give him what he wants just to avoid court and some say take your chances in court. the trouble is it is me who has to make those decisions and I don't feel equipped to do so.