My dear Vee:
how pleasent i am reading you again...!!... how much you had sgared with me, too much hurting and sad times...!!... so, yes, you can feel and read the changes in my h... I beleive my h is a new one... bc the former h i married was always negated to be affective, is just like a rebelion towards my wishes... not only during the crisis but before that... I beleive that seing me so decide doing my own life and wanting to feel loved and respected had made him think too much in himself, what he was doing, our R and our future... Now i can see in my actual h the same homour and mood, laughs and fun times we used to share since we married... now i feel him as confortable with the idea of being married and compromise with only one person, as the day we went to church to get married... now i can see in his eyes peace and happiness... not confution or depression... and now i can feel him so convince that a R is of two persons, and both need to work on that... but my h is a new one... and i am a new spouse... and all bc the crisis, and all bc our changes and growth..!!.. I beleive i also learn to accept this new man he had converted since he lost all that kilograms... and he had learned to love and share with this new women i am too...!!...

Now i havent too much time to post you specific changes, and specific things of the past h that are still there... but later with more times i will do it... Vee, it is always glad to know about you... whats your situation right now...?... thanks for stoping in my thread

andrea