Well the more realistic the dream the better, right? In terms of the Secret it's the real feeling and believing that make the difference. I've been struggling here as I always feel like I might be being manipulative if I ask for my H, but in my case I believe he still loves me so am appealing to something triggering this in him. I'm sure it's the same in your case.
Glad he texted back right away. Now at least the seal is broken so to speak so hopefully it will be less awkward for him to reach out if he wants to. I also like that he said he'd been meaning to text.
Hang in there; you're doing great and have a PMA to die for!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!