Logically, it makes sense to want to giver her a heartfelt card, but in reality, it did not do me any good - I wrote quite a few long letters and cards. It may be that they eventually go back and read the love letters and cards when they discover that the grass is not necessarily greener, but while they are still in denial and you are the enemy, the card is not going to cause them to have a change of mind.
I really believe that now my W would like a "do over" as I suspect she knows she made the wrong choices and has huge regret. I can only hope that if and when yours comes to a reality wakeup that you will still be there for her and that she has not pushed you past your line in the sand like my W has with me.
BTW... It does not look like this is the Seahawks year.
