I wouldn't have bit my lip on the "Why D11 always call you but not her" I would have said well she is more concerned about how this is affecting me because she views you as the instigator of the break-up of the family. That is one hell of a truth dart!!! I guess you could word it to make it less brutal but at this point what is holding back the truth darts actually helping? A reality check might just be what she needs.