I think the e-mail sounds like a good idea, given his customs. Hopefully he sees it in a positive light. I sent my H one like that early on, only it was too early for it and he only said that he got it when I asked. Your timing seems much better.
Remember to visualize yourself relaxed, having a great time with your H, and make good things happen! I hope you get your entire list between your visits!
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