Gosh, I asked the same questions about sex with someone else I attract. [edit: it's not really what you asked, but here's my view before I understood the question. ha ha!]
I asked three people I trust on that one.
The first said...there are no rules. It's either just a step towards getting back together or a step away. And there are many steps. That was from a wise married male friend who's in a very strong relationship (never divorced)
The second was...it's all about energies and where you want to direct them. Sexual energy is one kind and if you mix your energies with someone else, something might happen that you don't want to happen. That was from another male friend of mine, divorced, remarried and in a very strong relationship.
The third was from the guy who towed my car yesterday. His wife dumped him with a secret boyfriend, cleaned him out of every cent he had. He know's I'm on a path back to mine, but even he said, "I wouldn't sleep with anyone. If you do get back together, it will always be in the back of your mind".
My question to myself is "Why do I really want sex? Do I need it that badly, or am I doing it because I'm angry and out of revenge? And would I want to keep that secret for the rest of my life?"
My two cents.
Esky
Last edited by Esky94; 10/06/0803:41 AM.
H42 W36 M9 yrs D8 D5 d-day: 21/11/07 S and moved out: 22/2/08 Still S: 22/11/10
