Heya- Yeah, I think I am going to go and have a consult with an attorney just to make sure I know my rights. I believe we can do this without fighting, but I don't want to be stupid either.
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how about you do shock the crap out of him by putting yourself in the driver's seat. He can run along beside the car
ROFL that was a good one!
Re feelings for the xbf...that's sort of tricky. Early on in our M, H and I had power struggles. He was super moody and we both seemed to have a problem finding our 'groove' in living together. Took a little over a year to figure things out. During that time, I definitely wondered if I had made a mistake in sending the xbf away. And thru out the years, I would sometimes wonder. But, now it's been so long; and I haven't seen him for 13 years; I just don't know. Maybe buried somewhere. Several years ago, I think I would have been able to access feelings. I have been stuffing my feelings for so long regarding everything-- I don't know, now. Seems like the only feelings I really know right now are hurt, longing, sadness.
Last edited by Trixi; 10/06/0803:31 AM.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
