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[karen43]

Oh dear Karen,

Of course he was texting her. You just brought him water, joked with him, cooked him dinner and washed his socks. All while he just spent your kids' food money on his vacation.


Puppy

Well, when you put it like that!!! Wow, I'm a horrible failure huh???? In my defense, it is so much easier to see other people's sitches than your own. But yeah, I had a bad day all around I guess. I will never do this stuff again; I just do it without thinking. I know you think I will do this again, but I won't. I plan on being Puppy Lite in the future!!! Karen

[karen43]

Karen,

Another thing I want to add. I'm sure the OW texted him first. I bet she hated knowing that he was at your house doing something for you. Probably her way of checking up on him. It has to bring out insecurities in her, so chalk one up for you. I agree that he didn't have to text her back, that was rude, but at least I think you got one up on her!!!

Oh, thanks Yoyo! I know I didn't have a great day today, but hopefully we can pick up after mistakes and do better the next time. The dinner and water might have been ok, and I had to joke about the tree clock, but the socks were way over the top I know!!!

H was actually reading OW's text, not texting, but I would think he texted her back--I didn't wait to see; handed his socks and walked out. But I hope she was insecure--that makes me happy even though it shouldn't!!! I'm determined to be Puppy Lite in the future, I'm serious about that!!! Karen

[hopeful4her]

karen, you crack me up!

You and I are similar people, I think. Difference is that I do mine for a purpose. You do your thing because it is just who you are. You BETTER be Puppy Lite next time, whatever that means.

And I think the length of your post was piddley, BTW. Your gonna have to do better than that.

His socks, karen? His dirty stinky socks?

[kat727]

What happened to my response?? Treat your H like a hired handy man. You wouldn't wash socks for the handy man would you? The water was fine. Everything else was too much. You need to quit being nice...really.

kat

[karen43]

You and I are similar people, I think. Difference is that I do mine for a purpose. You do your thing because it is just who you are. You BETTER be Puppy Lite next time, whatever that means.

Yeah, I think that's true, it is who I am. But I need to tone it down a couple notches--I mean I know that; just need to remember that b/c H doesn't deserve the full strength me if that makes any sense--I'm getting pretty tired after a long day.

What I mean by Puppy Lite is that let's face it I could never be as strong or tough or whatever as puppy if you know what I mean and don't know if I even want to be that tough! I know you say you're a softie and I know you are inside Puppy, but you know you are also are very strong. When I try to channel you, I think I do my best! I know I sound nutty tonight, but I make sense to myself!!! Karen

[karen43]

What happened to my response?? Treat your H like a hired handy man. You wouldn't wash socks for the handy man would you? The water was fine. Everything else was too much. You need to quit being nice...really.

kat

Handy man, that's a good one. I'll try to remember that!!! I'm actually pretty joky with the handy man and bring drinks, but definitely wouldn't wash their socks!!!! Funny though if I did!!! I bet they'd always want to fix my stuff! Karen

[hopeful4her]

Ok, now I get Puppy Lite.

Puppy says he was just as bad as me when he first started out. Maybe even worse.

Now he should be Rottweiller Tails.

Your H def. doesn't deserve full strength karen. Maybe just little toe karen.

And I BET I know what the handyman would like to fix

[karen43]

Puppy says he was just as bad as me when he first started out. Maybe even worse.

Now he should be Rottweiller Tails.

Your H def. doesn't deserve full strength karen. Maybe just little toe karen.

And I BET I know what the handyman would like to fix

Yeah, but do you really believe that about Puppy??? Hard to imagine!!! Puppy a pushover? Can't picture that!!!

I love Rottweiler Tails, that's kind of how I think of him, but a little bit Schnoodle inside of course. (I just saw my 1st schnoodle schnauzer/poodle mix this week and it was really adorable)!!!

Oh, yeah, that's exactly what I mean--I love little toe Karen--and maybe if I'm feeling really generous sometime and H has been very, very nice (I can dream can't I?) then I can even give him big toe Karen!!!

Well, maybe, what you're thinking, I mean I am too nice to them b/c the last handyman was kind of nervous and mentioning his W to me! The way I am, you know my personality, all of my H's friends would tell him sorry dude, but Karen's in love with me, but he said he finally realized that wasn't true when one of his friends who was 20 years older, drug addict, and kind of looked it, told him I was in love with him!!! Karen

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Karen's like the Hooter's waitress that every guy in the entire place thinks she's hitting on just him.

Puppy, who's way more "Mr. Nice Guy" (to a fault) than he is Rottweiler

[hopeful4her]

Hey, I just ate there yesterday. You saying she WASN'T into me?

Crap! I thought I was going to be able to add another letter

How are you doing, karen? No drama to report is always a good thing.