Dreams are good. I think that people don't achieve big goals without them. Look back at whatever you've achieved in your life and I am sure it took a long time... And looking back it seemed to go quite quickly.

I hope that we will all feel like that soon enought- that our efforts to maintain our own sanity during this time has paid off and we are soon rebuilding our marriages.

The only downside about dreaming about your h being there- it just makes you wish he was there sooo much. I know that if I have the chance again I will never take his presence for granted!

Hope your H starts reaching out more again. Maybe he just needed that nudge...


Me-36
H-30
T-7yr, M-3yr
DivorceBusting Saved my marriage!
sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!