Hi just having a catch up . I am sorry to hear that you H drifted back to OW , but unfortunatly this is to be expected , while he trys to figure out what is important to him. I hear you about being tired and thats why I have taken quite a long break from worrying about saving my M or any DB'ing .
I heard a quote the other day from a lady that had been very successful in business and had then invested in a new project that went horribly wrong. She lost a small fortune. Her words were not to think of what you had lost , just concentrate on and be thankfull for what you have.
Somewhere along in this process your needs will must be met. A lot of what we try in this process is placing our own needs on the " back burner " . our need for love and companionship mostly. Its this I believe is tiring , going it alone without the support of someone close.
