T2L, go back to your original posts and look how you have grown. You are holding those negative emotions in. I admire your spunk!
I will use the idea of acting casual. I hope our friend calls him in the next few days. D only texted her father tonight. She just was not interested in hanging with him today. I think it was a lonely day for him.
I did one DB today. H said how messy D's room was and how she throws all her dirty clothes in the hall. I said I hate that also, but then H says I know you don't want her to do the wash because she overpacks the washing machine and uses too much detergent (his perception) but you should let her do the wash. So D comes out of her room, I tell her separate your clothes and start washing. I texted him later and said "thanks for the advise, D washed, dried, folder 4 loads of clothes. You were right".. that was it -- no response but gave him something to think about. Tomorrow is another day.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09