H went to wedding of friend from from college last night. Was falling asleep on drive home and decided to stay here overnight. I was very glad, as he usually has a hard time staying awake even when he isn't driving at night! He got up at 4 am to go to work, but flipped over and gave me a really nice hug and kiss before he left.
He visited his family today, and on the way back told me how he almost got into a fight with his brother (they are frat. twins who usually spar...). He initially wouldn't tell me over what, just said 'stupid stuff'. Then admitted that his brother was making stupid comments about me and us. Sounds like he stood up for me/us? He dropped by to visit afterwards and was wearing his ring.
He stayed for dinner and a video, kind of our date night for my birthday. It was nice. Layed back and nothing stressful. Was comfortable, but sad to see him go (hid it).. He called on the way home to say thanks for a great evening.
Sooo... I guess lots of little nice things.
Goals achieved- no R talks from my side. Nothing hurtful from his. We are talking lots more, he calls to tell me about his football team- something that is really important to him. Starting to share smaller details about life.
It is still a long road, but I am greatful for being where I am now. He may not be coming home yet, but he seems to have stopped running away so fast.
Now if I can make it through my b-day tomorrow in one piece! Glad I am working!
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
