Well I would casually say you had a phone call or what ever it was and they asked how you both were doing and you had to say that you both are not doing to well and unfortunately you had to separate.
Say they were so shocked and asked why and say you got upset and mentioned that there was someone else in the picture with H and that you are trying your best to make the best out of the situation. Just be very nonchalant about it when you explain it to him kinda like half paying attention. Just say believe me I really didn't want to have that conversation with them and say so ya want a cup of coffee and go your way ....Hee hee
My H said why are you telling everyone don't you feel stupid and I looked him in the face and smiled and said no why? I didn't do anything you did. Why do I need to feel stupid when you did it?
Ok back in a bit he's still here.....
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca