Mine has been a 4 year battle, but only this year feeling like I want my M back. I changed when H changed.
You are only young and you have a young child to fight for. Keep Dbing. I know what you mean when you get confident and then you let the Dbing slip. I have done that a few times myself. Now I have a list that i keep in my purse.
1. When he talks about R - listen and agree and be sorry. Here him out .He is reaching out.
2. No needy stuff. No matter how hard
3. Pretend to be GAL
4. Be up beat and agreeable but not doormat.
5. NO talking without thinking ( huge failing of mine )
6. No asking questions on where he has been.
I have aquestion for you . How did you find it within yorself to forgive her? My H will not. He feels cheated ? Is there anything I can do or say to him that would make him feel better?
