mk - You know- you really don't have to make all the decisions right now. You can choose to treat him as a friend, or just as the father of your children or as a husband. You can take him home with you, or insist he go live elsewhere. Frankly, if he's not falling all over himself apologizing for what he's put you through, I'm not sure I would take him into my home.
And frankly - as a "single" working mother of two, how would you take care of him? Does he have other family members better suited to caretaking him?
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I wrote about his sudden weight loss and bizarre appearance. Well he is still a vegan ( his former mistress insisted on this) an he is barely eating anything in the hospital. He looks horrible
PLEASE please go to his doctor's and iNSIST they test him for B12 deficiency. Most vegans are B12 deficient, and B12 deficiency can result in neurological (and even psychiatric) problems. If he is B12 deficient, it could hamper his recovery.