Do Something DIFFERENT

[Laurie]

Dear JoJo,
Yes, west...but I am back east, which is still quite west for you.

Ok, you are staying on track with your goals. And it sounds as if you are discovering that A can initiate, given a bit more time. And, it sounds as if you've really attempted to do stuff for you!

I am reading your last paragraph and I need some reminding. Did you tell me that A used to be the main initiator during your dating life? Or, did you do more of it? Then, during the time you were married, did that change at all? Did he used to initiate events, but wanted you to do more of it?

JoJo, I hope you are over the flu by now! Flu hug!