Well... lets beguin writing again the positive steps looking for maintaining a PMA toward my R.... 1. He agreed going all the familly to movie on saturday... in the past he used to stay at home only looking TV and me ocuppying of all the plans of my children... when we began seing again, he began doing this things with me, he stopped, and on saturday he accepted and we share a beautifull saturday at cinema... 2. He seems to enjoy too much my presence, my talks and conversation... and he is always open to talk too.. 3. I am less critic and more affective althpugh he is not too much affective... and it seems he likes that...!! 4. I am more thiner and he is noting that... yesterday i wear a beautifull bikini at beach...!! 5. We are talking about the future as a whole familly and things that ae important for us in the future..