Hi Garry, I read your post today with sorrow. This is more than just an infidelity it is a life change. It is hard enough to put up with OM, your W has chosen a totally different path by choosing a W. How do you convince your wife "not to be gay", which seems to be the case here. This is something that maybe she has been fighting with for years and now she is accepting what she is. You seem committed to trying to save the M. First W needs to get into counseling to see if she has the ability to love you as a man. I just want you to consider this aspect of the infidelity. My prayers are with you and your family.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
