My S12 and I have stayed home...I feel we are in mourning and H is celebrating.
Sorry for the hijack, but this stuck out. Sanderika, remember something. You were exactly where you wanted to be, at home, with your son. I try to look at it that way. Because sometimes, I feel like you, our marriage is ending, and H is out every weekend, at parties, with women, having the time of his life. While I am at home, with no life at all. But, I amspending time with my kids, exactly what I would choose to do at any given point. I try to focus on that. I am so sorry for your pain.
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I want my H to feel regret, remorse and pain for leaving a wonderful family. He is giving up so much to only receive her in return. H must be convinced this is what he wants.
Who knows what they feel, really. But we know what they gave up.
Heal for yourself, then help your son heal.
Cinders, as always, I completely understand all of your feelings. Just last week H was listing to me the things that are 'hard' for him regarding our divorce. He never once listed me. Nope. Cinders, we will be ok. We will.
