Andrea - sounds like maybe he's getting depressed again and you are reacting to that? I went through a period of just feeling angry and unsettled with H - couldn't figure out why, since things seemed to be going so well by that time - then over the next month it became obvious that his depression had returned. Once he started on antidepressants again - he felt much better - and suddenly all MY uncomfortable thoughts went away. I think I was just picking up his feelings and reacting to them without even knowing it.
As for household money - is there a way you two can set up a budget, a certain amount goes to you every week to run the household, so you don't have to ask every time?
