t2L, one last thing, when H finds out about me e-mailing our friends from China -- how should I handle it? I think he will be freaked out not knowing what I told him about OW (if I said she worked for him)...any thoughts?
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09