T2L, can't wait to get the book. I need to judge when the time is right to pick Plan A and for how long. Right now I think my H is in the "high stage" of the A -- just getting out of the house, taking her away, buying her gifts. It will take a bit of time for the reality of what he is doing to settle in. Also with the holidays I need to plan right. With us going to CT for X-mas and H staying here with OW will have some kind of impact on H. H might tailspin into a depression during that time. Also I need to know how long I can last without learning to hate H's behavior and having enough before going to Plan B. Good advice. Pray that this works. Also, I just noticed that your H left in 5/08 and moved in with OW on 8/08. Where did he stay for those 3 months? just curious.
TxMom, looks like we have lots of work to do...I am ready.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
