Trying2live- the new post 1

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T2L or our new DB Hero,
You are so regimented and dedicated to the plan. You go girl. I pray for you every day that it works. We want this stich to be big success stories for DB.

This morning I am in the shower-- still sick and D says Daddy is here working in the yard. Wanted to look good but nothing I could do but brush my hair and look pale, came out and said Hi. He said you look awful (gee thanks), H then says I will take D to religious school and then go back there and take her to Church. I said I was going to try and go but didn't think I was up to it. H works in lawn, I tell him it looks really good, and then ask about tires for my car if they are worn. He was concerned because he thought all 4 should be replaced but I told him I could not afford it right now (was that wrong?), H looked pained. I made coffee, he sat with me and had a cup then D28 calls and he talked to her for about 10 minutes. Now he is at church with D. He asks me if D15 was mad at him because she would not commit to going out with him today. So I told him that she was mad because she said he lied about going away himself and he always lies and no one believes it and she is not stupid. T2L was that a bad thing to do?? But it wasn't from me but from her. He looked depressed. Also he looked bloated I think from drinking over the weekend. He did say on the way out, I can't believe how much weight you lost -- you look great -- your clothes are hanging off of you. Look at me i can't lose anything. So I said I know you will get back on track and will do well working out again. (DB)

H leaves and phone rings and who is it -- Our friend's wife from China. They were very upset about the e-mail that I sent and could not believe it. OUr friend was upset that when he was here last month that H said nothing. I said H is definitely having an A. In the e-mail I told them everything except who the OW was but did say it was totally unethical. So our friend says who could he have met since all his time was spent at work? I think he read between the lines (exactly what I want). Well bottom line is our friend is going to call H and talk to him. I will not tell H about phone call or e-mail. Our friend says that H must be having a MLC and anything he can do to help he will. I asked them to pray for us. So now I have prayers being said all the way from China.

T2L, like the idea of contacting OW family, the only problem is that I know her Mom does not speak English (she is mexican). OW has 3 grown daughters but nobody seems to have much morals in the family but it is a thought. Have to ponder.
Go be the domestic Goddess. Also shout out to other members of this stich. Stay strong.