Also....I was reading Michele's Blog....and when I did, I got the sense of...YES a marriage CAN be saved...thing is, me and many more have been here for the longest of times and the marriage has NOT been saved...actually, even though I've done most of what she suggests in her books and texts, I still feel that it had no influence whatsoever on my situation. Now I don't mean this as a criticism, as I very well know that not all marriages will be saved...then again, there are many people here who have honestly tried their hardest and followed the DBrules very well, yet nothing seemed to change....
I'm sorry, I guess I am disappointed. I so wished to have been one of the ones that made it. Yet I may end up being one of the truly lost cases... And that, whilst there was/is still much love left between us...just not the 'right' kind...
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
