Short update...he called from work last night. I answered and asked if he wanted to talk to D..he said yes. I let about 2 minute go by (D's convos with her Dad are usually very short)and I picked up the other line to see if they were still on the phone as I had to call my Dad, just in time to hear him say...put your mom back on the phone. I said.."I'm here". So he asks me how my day was...what did I do today...etc. Told him my brothers had come over this morning for coffee and he asks "what do they think about us". I said what do you mean? He said..."what do they think happened?". I told him they think he moved out. I told him brothers have no ill feelings towards him, although they did tell me if I never wanted them to talk to him again they wouldn't. I told him I did not want my brothers relationship with him to change. I then asked him what his family thought...he said he doesn't talk to anyone about anything anymore. I asked him why not and he said he didn't know. I think that's his favorite answer. Anyway, not sure what to make of it.
