Thanks ITH

I really still can't believe it. He brought it up 100% on his own and usually when he gets something in his sights that he wants then he goes after it. I replayed the conversation like ten times before I went to sleep last night. Lol.

This morning I have been trying to think of ways to make it work, like compromises I could make to make it the "easy" choice when he comes home. There is a city somewhat between here and the city he lives in. I am not 100% sure we could afford to live there but it we were both paying our half, as roomates, we could probably afford it. It would be a little farther away that I would like but then again I would have my hubby back so I would deal with it.

I am not going to bring it up again until a little later down the road since I know he is dealing with army stuff as he gets ready to leave. However I think if he initiates the conversation I will go along with it. Is that right? I just know I am not going to push it. I am just going to hang back, find that second source of income, and wait it out a little. I could stay here at my parents for another month or two without going crazy if I knew that when he got home we could move in together again.

Something about this army situation has really got him thinking. I'm not gonna question it I am just gonna smile! \:\)


~Daisy